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Saturday 29 January 2011

WHY DO GAMBIAN MEN CHEAT?

I had been thinking on the subject " why Gambian/ African men cheat? I wanted to find out myself. So I had a series of conversation with different people. I know Gambian men cheating in most of their love/ lust relationships isn't a new thing. Cheating is not a big deal to them. Some Gambian men are selfish, lairs but also polite. 

So lets deal with the basic subject: Why do they cheat?

Answer: because they can and sometimes can away with it or they want to explore something extra, greed or insecurity.

How do you know your man is cheating?

1. Spends all his spare time on the phone with a particular female friend.

2.He picks up an argument every time – nothing seems to please him. The main reason for this is because, he is looking for an opportunity to connect with his new, “connection with the classic line, I am so misunderstood aka she doesn’t understand me but you do”

3. Turns off his cell phone when he’s home or with you or goes outside to make his phone call.

4. charger problems/lost cell phone/lost charger – being the reason you can’t get a hold of him for days

5.Erratic behaviour

6.He doesn’t notice you in your sexy get up aka freak dress.

7. He suddenly becomes too nice. For example, if you have a miserly man and all of a sudden he starts buying you stuff like there is no tomorrow, he is doing that to assuage his guilt.

8. He is always says he is busy whenever you call him.

9. He is working late.